I just don’t think that it can be that unclear if someone gives consent or not even when drunk. I mean why even go some place with the person and engage in the activity, if you mean no? And yes I am in fact a girl.
We’ve moved so far beyond the original point of my even addressing your post (which was simply, don’t put things in the wrong tags), but I really can’t not address this. If someone is drunk, they cannot give consent. Their judgment is impaired. Drunk driving is illegal, and there’s literally no debate as to whether it should be or not, so what exactly are you saying is the difference here?
(As for your points about situations where both parties or drunk, or they’re in a committed relationship and one of them is drunk - in the former case, it’s lack of consent all around and our legal system really has no idea how to handle it. In the latter case, it’s something that I personally would have no idea how to handle. If I were in a long-term relationship with someone I cared deeply for and trusted implicitly, and they felt the same way about me, I still wouldn’t be comfortable having sex with them if they were drunk, regardless of how flirty they were being.)
You shouldn’t have contacted me in the first place because I said in my original post that I do not wanna offend people and just reach said few users and spread awareness and if you think that this is wrong then I feel truly sorry for you.
Drunk driving can be a problem because of reacting for example. If you’re drunk your vision can get blurry, or you just am not so aware of your surroundings and that is why you could probably hit somebody and react too late. I may have never drunk an drop of alcohol in my life but I’m very sure that a drunk person can just signal the other person that she is not interested. I had to take different medication and also anesthesia a couple of times and even in such cases I was completely aware of what was going on even though my vision was blurry and my head was spinning…so I don’t think that being drunk is an excuse for not being able to give consent.
okay. I’m not even in this god damn fandom. I don’t give a fuck about your ship or how this all started but bitch you just put your foot in it because I have lost friends to drunk drivers which means I take this shit fucking seriously. “Drunk driving can be a problem because of reacting…your vision can get blurry or you are not aware…” EXACTLY. you are NOT FUCKING AWARE no matter HOW much you think you are. Because, and here’s the fucking kicker, you know what alcohol and drugs do? THEY. IMPAIR. JUDGEMENT. Which means sweetheart, than when you think you were “rational and fine” while under anesthesia? YOU WERE NOT. You were high as a god damn kite and stupid as shit (although since that’s apparently a normal state of being idk maybe there was no difference). Alcohol drugs and other inhibitors change your brain chemistry. This is not “an opinion” its a mother fucking fact. Its why so many countries have a ZERO tolerance limit for blood alcohol levels when people drive. Because even ONE drink can impair a person’s reaction and most importantly PERCEPTION.
Drunk drivers do not fucking get in a car going “IM GONNA GO KILL SOMEONE!” get get in a car going “IM NOT DRUNK IM TOTALLY IN CONTROL” and then they fucking kill someone. THAT is what it means to have your “judgment impaired” THAT Is why you CANNOT give consent under the influence.
And that is why you should shut the fuck up and do some fucking research on how different substances affect brain chemistry before opening your mouth and thinking that your experience is somehow representative of ANYONE else’s or even that its reliable at all.
WAERSTRDHVYBJNKM.AWSERDFTBHJNKMJYTFYR. This is what Im talking about when I say double standard thing. weh. I mean, sure, he broke the law, he deserves to go to jail, or face up to his crime, but really. Imagine if this was a woman. A woman tried to rob a store, and then got the shit beaten out of her and used as a sex slave for 3 days as her punishment by the owner of said store. IT WOULDNT BE FUNNY. PEOPLE WOULD FLIP. SHIT.
Mainly, what Im trying to say here, is that this isn’t okay for ANYONE to do, whether its a woman to a man or a man to a woman. Rape shouldn’t be funny. You see this a lot, actually. That gif where the girl and guy are in some kind of argument and are both upset, and then the girl proceeds to slap/punch him multiple times, and then kiss him after, and it’s some kind of ‘romanticized’ cliche. It shouldn’t be romantic, it should be looked at just as if a guy punched a girl a few times in an argument and then tried to kiss her. It’s not good. It’s not, “Don’t punch me, because I’m a girl” It’s “Don’t punch me, because I’m a fucking human being.”
Also, on ‘The View’ when they talked about the case where the man got his dick chopped off by his crazy wife when he wanted a divorce and they proceeded to make fun at it. Imagine if a woman got her body mutilated by her crazy husband if she wanted a divorce.
Rape is never funny, and some people don’t seem to get that when the roles are switched and the male is being mistreated that it’s still wrong. I’m sorry if I’m letting the funny hype down and being some ‘asshole’ about ruining the joke, but I just don’t see this as funny. Rape is never funny.
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